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Learn to Be a Gentleman

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One thing I feel that is needed for a man to be romantic is to be a GENTLEMAN. Being a gentle man is being attentive to the needs of the women in your lives. Being a gentle man means being compassionate and understanding towards the special woman in your life. Being a gentle man means knowing her needs and wanting to meet those needs. Being a gentle man means being the man in the relationship and letting her be the woman by treating her like the Queen she is. Being a GENTLEMAN includes opening and holding the door for your special someone wherever you go, including other women that you may surround you. Opening her car door is also a nice gentlemanly act that women are not used to anymore. I know me, dating someone with old school values has told me to not touch the door when I am with him because that is his job and even I sometimes have to catch myself and not reach for the door but its a gesture I appreciate it.  Some other gentlemanly gestures that a man can do is to pick he

A Letter to YOUR Special Someone

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Dear Special Someone, Their are a lot of good men out here. Their are men out here who want to be loved. Their are men out here who can respect you. Their are men out here who will treat you like a Queen. But guess what, sometimes we as women make it hard for these men to be with us. Why? Because maybe you are so used to bad men that you don't know a good man when you see him. Maybe because you are so independent that you can't let a man be a man. Maybe because you've been abused in the past and you don't know how to trust. Maybe because you are tired of being hurt so you can't open your heart to someone else. Maybe because you have some unresolved baggage you need to take care like a baby daddy, ex lover, or just emotional leftovers from the last wrong dude. Whatever your issue is, wake up. Don't let these bad men make you blind to the good man. What happened to you in the past is the past and you might be passing up the chance for a great future because of